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- It was 20 years ago when
my
wake up call came.
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- Our sex life was fine, money wasn’t a problem, I
wasn’t a drunk, didn’t abuse her, came home every night and I never
cheated. Why in the world would she not want to remain married to me
anymore?
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- That was the question that ran
through my head the day I found the phone book open to attorneys.
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- “What will my parents think? They’ve been married for over
thirty-five years and I can’t make it to year five. What will happen
with my boys, will I ever get to see them again? What about the house,
the cars, the motor home?”
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- I stood there shaking, not knowing what to do. I wasn’t use to
having something fail, especially a relationship. I am a people person
and can get along with everyone. As a matter of fact my attorney once
told me that I am the only person he knows who can relate to the
homeless and the millionaire at the same time. Yet there I stood not
able to relate to my wife.
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- My life was crumbling right before my eyes, money wouldn’t fix this
problem, and my charismatic personality wouldn’t do the trick either. I
was getting sick to my stomach.
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- It is amazing how many thoughts go through your head in moments like
that. I can remember to this day standing in the kitchen thinking about
the negative impact it will have on my children and my finances. I
thought of my wife getting married to someone else, my children not
being with me, the struggles we will have with holidays, vacations and
birthdays.
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- It only took a few minutes for me to realize that I had to do
something and I had to do it fast. Those negative thoughts were not
acceptable to me and I would not subject myself or my children to a life
of pain and misery.
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- But what could I do? I obviously didn’t know
something about women and relationships and what I didn’t know was
destroying my life and my family.
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- That was 20 years ago.
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- This year we will be celebrating our 25th wedding anniversary and I
can honestly say we are still like newlyweds. We still hold hands, we
hug and kiss in public and yes we still
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- “Turn each other on”
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- Why? Because I learned how to not only get that
passion back,
- I learned how to………..
- “Keep that Fire Burning!”
- How about you?
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- Is your relationship still burning with passion?
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- Right now almost 58% of all marriages in America end in divorce!
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- Do the two of you still....
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